on Ugliness and Beauty
Question: I am so terribly Ugly and
I have suffered much because of That. What should I do?
Osho : Ugliness has nothing to do
with your body. Neither has beauty much to do with the body.
The beauty or the ugliness of the body is very superficial; the
real thing comes from within. If you can become beautiful
within, you will become luminous. It has happened many times:
even an ugly person, when he becomes meditative, starts looking
beautiful. This I have watched continuously, hear in and year
out. When people come here they have totally different faces.
When they start meditating, when they start dancing, when they
start singing, their faces relax. Their tensions drop. Their
misery, which had become part of their face, slowly slowly wars
off. They become relaxed like children. Their faces start
gleaming with a new inner joy, they become luminous. Physical
beauty and ugliness is not very important. The real thing is the
inner. I can teach you how to be beautiful from within, and that
is real beauty. Once it is there, your physical form won't
Your eyes will start shining with joy; your face will have a
gleam, a glory. The form will become immaterial. When something
starts flowing from within you, some grace, then the outer form
is just put aside. Comparatively it loses
all significance: don't be worried about it. And whatsoever I
have been saying was just a joke. Don't become a politician,
because if you become a politician you will become more ugly. It
works both ways: ugly people
become politicians, and politicians become more ugly.
It will be impossible for you not to become more ugly, because
the whole world of politics is one of continuous quarrel,
continuous violence, continuous competition. It will make you
more tense, it will make you more graceless, it will make you
more and more insipid and dull. Because only dullards can
succeed in the world of politics. I would suggest to the
researchers of the London Polytechnic that this is only half the
story: please work to find the other half too.
This is the half which finds that political success is more
possible for ugly and unintelligent-looking people. The other
half is that those who become politicians become more and more
ugly, more and more unintelligent looking.
They have to, because whatsoever makes you successful, you have
to practice it more --naturally, obviously. whatsoever helps you
to succeed will become your very style of life. That is the
other half of the story, that politicians become ugly. Meditate,
love, dance, sing, celebrate here with me, and the ugliness will
Bring something higher into yourself, and the lower will be
forgotten, because it is all comparative, it is all relative. If
you can bring something higher into yourself... It is as if
there is a small candle burning in the room: bring a bigger
light into the room and the small candle simply loses all
significance. Bring the beauty of the within, which is easier.
With the other beauty I cannot help much; I am not a plastic
surgeon. You can find some plastic surgeon who can help you, but
that will not help in any way.
You may have a little longer nose, better shaped, but that will
not help anything much. If you remain the same inside, your
outer beauty will simply show your inner ugliness; it will
become a contrast. Bring some inner beauty.
Denise felt very self-conscious about her face. "I'm ugly," she
said to herself as she looked into the mirror. "My nose is
crooked, my chin is weak, my ears stick out, and I have bags
under my eyes."
In desperation she went to a plastic surgeon and had a face
lift. Her chin was strengthened, her nose remodeled, her ears
adjusted, and the bags under her eyes removed.
After months of suffering, the ordeal was finally over. She was
now able to entertain friends, but she still sulked about
One day her friend Joan looked at her in amazement. "I don't
know why you look so sad.
You now have the face of a movie star."
"I know," sobbed Denise. "But now my new face doesn't go along
with my old body."
A very ugly girl was sitting at the beach, when the waves washed
a bottle at her feet. She opened it -- and out blew a huge genie
in a billow of smoke. "I have been a prisoner in this bottle for
five thousand years," cried the genie, "and now you have freed
me. As a reward, I will fulfill any wish you make." Ecstatic,
the ugly girl announced, "I want a
figure like Sophia Loren, a face like Elizabeth Taylor, and legs
like Ginger Rogers."
The genie looked her over carefully, then sighed, "Baby, just
put me back in the bottle."
Related Osho Discourses:
Why do I always Compromise
I don't like
Myself, Specially my Body
Can you say some thing about Guilt and
Osho on Trusting
oneself and stop doing Imitation
Inferiority Complex and Superiority Complex
Osho - I am addicted to telling lies. Why do I do it?
Why am I such a Beggar for
Attention? What can I do about it
Why is it so difficult and
scary to show your Feelings and Just to be Yourself?
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