Tips for going
deep in to meditation
The
first and foremost thing for going deep in to meditation
is to understand the mind games. Any thing that comes
out of mind can never lead us towards meditation. Mind
can never be the tool to get out of mind. But at the
same time mind will give logical reasons to us saying
that it is helping us in every possible way to go deep
in meditation. E.g. Mind can take the responsibility of
reading this article so that you can go deep in
meditation. But in reality this is another trick of
mind.
Secondly
if we look deeper, then going deep in meditation is not
an achievement. Meditation is itself a device which we
are using to seek enlightenment or get rid of Mind. But
Mind is asking this question “tips for going deep in to
meditation”. So here Mind is making meditation another
goal. Some
people want to achieve in materialistic world and some
in spiritual world but difference is not much. In both
the areas mind is playing its game. So for going deep in
to meditation one should be aware of mind games.
If
one understand Mind and how it deceives us then journey
becomes very easier. I don’t have any rivalry with the
mind because in reality there is no such thing as mind
and if I start fighting with mind then indirectly I will
be giving power to mind. Mind is like a dream which does
not have any existence but as long as I give importance
to it, it has a life.
Meditation is a device
which we use to remove the dirt or garbage from our
consciousness. So our basic aim is to use meditation to
realize our real self but not to become fanatic about
meditation. I am not against meditation. I love meditation.
I feel meditation should follow us like a shadow in all our
actions. But many Meditators end up having a very big ego of
“I am a great meditator” and this ego stops them from
going deep in to meditation. One should always remember we
are using meditation to seek truth and in the end we will
have to leave meditation also. This clarity about meditation
takes one much further in meditation.
It will be better if we look at the process how all
meditation techniques have been developed till now.
Once Osho had said that he had gone through all
meditation techniques and he was surprised to find that
essence of all meditation techniques is witnessing.
Secondly the
Sages say our real nature is “Truth, Bliss and Consciousness.
Time and space does not exist in that state. One is ever
blissful, relaxed and one takes decision moment to moment”. So
any thing which brings us closer to this state of the Sages
could be helpful in going deep in meditation.
Just
to go further I want to share one small story:
Once
five blind men came across an elephant. The first blind
man touched the tail of elephant and the second one
touched the legs and the third one touched the trunk and
so on. When they were asked to describe the elephant
they told about the part which they had touched. They
were telling a lie but that was not the complete truth
also. But if they had touched other parts of the
elephant also; like from the trunk they touched the tail
and then legs and so on. Then they would definitely had
a better idea of the shape of elephant.
Similarly when we discuss tips for going deep in
meditation then they should be practiced together to
have more depth in meditation or one can start slowly.
Initially one can become comfortable with one tip and
then can add another tip and then another tip. But at
the same time be aware of mind games and ego. These tips
are helpful but NOT ESSENTIAL for going deep in to
meditation. One should always be spontaneous and listen
to one's inner voice or intuition.
1.
Preparing the body:
Through out the ages the Body has been condemned. It’s
been called full of diseases, puss etc. That is
perfectly right - the body will die one day. But this
body is the temple for soul also. In this very body the
divine can descend one day. So we should worship the
body as we worship the divine yet at the same time
having no attachment to the body.
a. Body
has needs and mind has desire. Body needs are like food,
sleep, comfort etc and mind needs are desires like fame,
popularity, money etc.
Body needs can be fulfilled and should be fulfilled.
But Mind's needs can never be fulfilled and should never
be tried to fulfill.
b.
Our human body is basically meant to eat
Vegetarian food. Sages have defined three types of Gunas
(nature) which are Tamasic, Rajasic and Satwic. In this
Satwic Guna is best for meditation and is developed with
vegetarian food.
c.
Right food is very essential as it nourishes our
body. In vegetarian food, also one should eat right
food, which our body needs and which can be easily
digested also. E.g. proper chewing of food is very good.
If we too eat too much then we will fall asleep or
become lethargic. Because to digest the food which we
have eaten, our body sends energy to our stomach and the
more food we eat, the more energy is required by
stomach. So sleep comes to us, to temporary shut down
other works of the body to conserve energy.
d.
Food has two parts gross and subtle.
Subtle part is the vibrations associated with the food.
Preferably one should prepare the food himself. Because
one who prepares the food his energy is also added in
the food. So while preparing the food our mental state
should be very good. Doctors say during pregnancy if the
mother is angry then the child also experience the anger
of the mother. Same is the case with our food.
e.
One another very good practice followed in rural
India are that they offer prepared food to their chosen
deity and then they eat it with devotion. And they
believe that food is tasted by God and now this food has
become Prasad (offering from God to the devotee).
So their eating become
very meditative and secondly while preparing food they
are so much devoted because they are going to offer this
food to the deity - that preparing food becomes a prayer
for them. A small activity changes their whole state.
Meditation is not some thing which we do 30 minutes in a
day.
Meditation means the awareness with which we do
things.
E.g. one is preparing food
for his chosen deity from his heart then this simple
activity is meditation. Any thing which brings us closer
to a joyful yet relaxed state is meditation.
Any thing can become
meditation.
f.
Preparing food with good intention is
very important but more important is the attitude with
which we eat food. If we have bad food to eat but
our attitude is very good. E.g. we are grateful for that
food and then that intention can change bad food to good
food.
And reverse is also true. Good food eaten with a bad
attitude will spoil the food. That is the one of the
reason people who practice chanting keeps on remembering
the God's name while eating also. And in many religions
one offers thanks giving to god for giving the food, if
that prayer of thanks giving comes from heart, if one is
really thankful then food acts as a catalyst in our
growth.
g.
No fruits should be eaten immediately after food.
Fruits can be eaten 30 minutes before meal as it spoils
the digestion.
h.
Very often people drink water immediately after
food. That is another bad example. When we eat food then
to digest that food immediately some acid is released in
the stomach and if we drink water then that acid gets
diluted and it disturbs the digestion. Ideally water
should be drink 30 minutes after the food or 1-2 sip of
water can be taken during meal as required.
i.
Proper exercise: Either we don’t do any
exercise or we do exercise which is more than required.
Exercise makes us active and makes the free flow of Prana (life force). Many times it happens we fall asleep
during meditation. Yoga is very useful for giving us
calmness of mind and agility to Body.
2.
Preparing the Mind:
the moment we get the idea that we should meditate. From
that moment onwards we should start watching the mind.
What trick mind is going to play? Mind does not love
meditation but if mind is asking us to meditate then
some trick must be there.
a.
Some years ago I used to go to a meditation
center to meditate after my office hours and I used to
be very much excited to reach the meditation center.
Usually I used to walk briskly and at some times I used
to run to reach to the center. Slowly I realized that
while coming to the meditation center I used to become
very excited and during the first 10-15 minutes of
meditation I was watching this excitement only. So the
point is the moment we become aware of doing meditation
then meditation should start from that moment itself and
secondly we should always maintain mental calmness.
b.
Many times during the day we become sad,
disturbed or angry and we lose our composure. These are
occasions when we should try to witness these emotions.
Because if we are calm through out the day then with
that calmness we will be entering inside meditation.
Secondly these moments when we get disturbed are a clue
to our mind games also. We get disturbed because we
don’t like some things. Life is not flowing as per the
mind's expectation. One should need to be more aware on
these occasions of disturbance and slowly meditation
becomes a part of daily activity. Meditation is itself
not a activity but any act done with awareness adds
grace to that action.
c. Once
I was reading someone's experience of the 40 day
meditation camp conducted by
Swami Chaitanya
Bharti.
In this camp newspapers and television are not allowed.
When the person came back from meditation camp after 40
days and he read the newspaper - he found that world has
not changed a bit. Newspaper were still filled with
stories of rape, crime, scandals, accidents etc. Same is
the case with movies and televisions. Today's media is a
good excuse for the mind to work. Newspapers,
television, movies are food for Mind.
Sincere meditators should avoid them. Advanced
meditators can watch the Movies if he/she can remain
detached from the characters of the movie. Normally when
we watch a movie we get identified with the character.
On a fighting scene we also become angry. Meditators, if
meditating on movie is not required to
identify/associated with the movie. Any thing can become
meditation, once we have the knack to meditate.
3.
Body and mind are not separate but they are one: During
meditation when our thoughts slow down then
automatically our breathing becomes very rhythmic and
slow. Body and mind are not only related but one. So
what ever we eat, what ever we think, desire, dream
affects us.What ever we eat affects our gross body and
subtle part of it affects our mind. Any thing that
creates excitement affects the mind. Food is not the
only intake for us. We take food through vision, smell
and sound also. These all things affect our mental state
and go a long way in helping the mediator.
a.
Vegetarian food
is so much emphasized for the meditator. Because with
non-vegetarian food one becomes more angry, cruel or
Tamasic. But at the same time if non-vegetarian person
wants to meditate then that person is not stopped from
meditation. Over the period of time when meditation
matures and then automatically the person would like to
eat vegetarian food. Nothing should be forced in the
path of meditation. Any thing which is non-essential
will drop on its own.
b.
The
company of sages or good people is advised. I
firmly believe when some one talks with me then in a
subtle way that person is interacting with all those
people who have shaped my life in a major way.
c.
Thinking good thoughts is considered noble. But I
feel good thoughts are also thoughts. Good or bad are
just our criteria to judge. So I don’t recommend any
type of thoughts. But witnessing of thoughts.
d.
Alcohol is another factor which makes us excited.
Any sort of drug which makes us excited takes us away
from meditation. Tantra makes use of alcohol for meditation but they have special methods and hidden schools where they know how to make right use of alcohol.
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